Children's emotions reflect how secure they feel in their world. Parents concerned with how well their children are learning in school should be aware of their children's emotions. But how to know if the emotions are expressing unusual stress or concern? You have to know what "normal" for the school year is. Anything besides the "norm" should be considered as a warning sign that the child is having trouble at school.
School Year Roller Coaster Emotions
Students are excited to return to school. Most are excited because they are in a new grade with new teachers and were promoted (rarely is anyone held back any more). That excitement has less to do with learning (task completion) than to seeing their friends again. School is a very social environment!
The excitement quickly wanes during September when most of the work is review of past work (elementary) or relatively easily done (few assignments for middle and high school except math which always has daily assignments). By October, students have had homework assignments, quizzes and tests in the computer/record book; the grade distribution begins to settle into place. Students with poor work habits and/or skills mastery have poor grades; students with strong work ethic and/or skills mastery have good grades. Back to school nights and parent conferences usually begin in October when progress grades come out. Students begin to settle into the routines and look forward to holidays.
The end of October brings Halloween - an exciting time for K-6 students because of the anticipation surrounding candy and (where available) the scary mansion trips. The latter is especially attractive to upper elementary and middle school students. High school students usually don't care about Halloween.
It takes about a week to recover from the sugar highs and November begins building for the holiday season. The first 3 weeks of November work and emotions are mostly stable (other than sugar influences). The 4th week is Thanksgiving vacation, so the week is short and workloads are lighter. Excitement prevails between Thanksgiving and winter break - usually about 3 weeks long. Final grades are due out during the time in most districts, so high school and middle school students often feel pressure. Tempers flare easily because there is less self-control. Additional difficulties happen when the weather is changing during this time (yes, weather fronts DO make a BIG difference in behaviors!).
By the 3rd week in December, emotions are high with anticipation, but school work is definitely NOT on the students' minds, regardless of age. Primary children work best because they don't have the concept of vacation approaching and Christmas almost there. Many high schools have final exams before break which puts more pressure (resulting in acting out behavior) on the students who aren't doing so well.
January is a calm month. The students are glad to be back with their friends after break and there are no major demands on them. In most parts of the country the weather is lousy, so they might as well be in school. Martin Luther King holiday is so close to winter break, it usually doesn't register on their minds why they have a day off. The routine is back and students work well. Late January/early February again brings parent conferences; accountability for grades may escalate students' acting out or resisting behaviors. Presidents' Day is a welcome break and everyone looks forward to it but without much anticipation.
Mid-February through spring break (at end of March to mid-April) is the "meat" of the school year when there are no interruptions (other than a report card) and the routine is solid. Heavy assignments (reports/essays) may be given to high school students during this time period. Spring break is a very welcome relief for everyone.
Unfortunately, after spring break students minds are not on academics. The weather is turning better in most places and a welcome respite from being confined for 4-6 months. Sometimes districts will have another round of parent conferences when progress/report card grades are out.
Late spring is also when most states do their state testing; although some states begin as early as November, the "big push" for high scores is in the spring. Teachers pressure students to do well, work hard, pay attention, use strategies they have been taught, and most do. Teachers may also be racing to present information they think might be on the tests (mostly at middle and secondary levels). During testing, schools often give students snacks and require halls to be "extra quiet". Pressure is on students to comply and perform well. This pressure often brings out the worst in many, because they know they can't do well and/or tolerate the pressure. When the testing sessions are done, they "rejoice" quite vocally and actively.
Students take the state tests anywhere between mid-April and late May. The school year may end at the end of May or the middle of June. As far as students are concerned, when state tests are done, they are done. Attitudes toward school and assignments are poor and grades start to decline. Good weather only exacerbates their attitudes, because they are looking forward to summer vacation. Those who have fallen behind either give up entirely or try to race to submit overdue work (these are usually the athletes who want to be eligible for fall sports next year). The last week of school is a trying time for teachers and students alike; everyone wants it done with, but completions have to happen. High school and some middle schools have final exams during the last week. Seniors usually have theirs done a week before everyone else so they can be released from school early (graduation practice being the rationale from limiting those who will disrupt the entire school with pranks, cutting classes, shouting and horse playing in the halls).
Relief and joy are the last week of school. It is over and vacation is ahead. It will resume the same cycle the next year.
All children can succeed in school. Parents can help their children by teaching the foundational skills that schools presume children have. Without the foundation for schools' academic instruction, children needlessly struggle and/or fail. Their future becomes affected because they then believe they are less than others, not able to succeed or achieve or provide for themselves or their families. Visit http://parentsteachkids.com to learn how to directly help your child and http://easyschoolsuccess.com to learn what is needed for education reform efforts to be successful.
By Jennifer Little
School Year Roller Coaster Emotions
Students are excited to return to school. Most are excited because they are in a new grade with new teachers and were promoted (rarely is anyone held back any more). That excitement has less to do with learning (task completion) than to seeing their friends again. School is a very social environment!
The excitement quickly wanes during September when most of the work is review of past work (elementary) or relatively easily done (few assignments for middle and high school except math which always has daily assignments). By October, students have had homework assignments, quizzes and tests in the computer/record book; the grade distribution begins to settle into place. Students with poor work habits and/or skills mastery have poor grades; students with strong work ethic and/or skills mastery have good grades. Back to school nights and parent conferences usually begin in October when progress grades come out. Students begin to settle into the routines and look forward to holidays.
The end of October brings Halloween - an exciting time for K-6 students because of the anticipation surrounding candy and (where available) the scary mansion trips. The latter is especially attractive to upper elementary and middle school students. High school students usually don't care about Halloween.
It takes about a week to recover from the sugar highs and November begins building for the holiday season. The first 3 weeks of November work and emotions are mostly stable (other than sugar influences). The 4th week is Thanksgiving vacation, so the week is short and workloads are lighter. Excitement prevails between Thanksgiving and winter break - usually about 3 weeks long. Final grades are due out during the time in most districts, so high school and middle school students often feel pressure. Tempers flare easily because there is less self-control. Additional difficulties happen when the weather is changing during this time (yes, weather fronts DO make a BIG difference in behaviors!).
By the 3rd week in December, emotions are high with anticipation, but school work is definitely NOT on the students' minds, regardless of age. Primary children work best because they don't have the concept of vacation approaching and Christmas almost there. Many high schools have final exams before break which puts more pressure (resulting in acting out behavior) on the students who aren't doing so well.
January is a calm month. The students are glad to be back with their friends after break and there are no major demands on them. In most parts of the country the weather is lousy, so they might as well be in school. Martin Luther King holiday is so close to winter break, it usually doesn't register on their minds why they have a day off. The routine is back and students work well. Late January/early February again brings parent conferences; accountability for grades may escalate students' acting out or resisting behaviors. Presidents' Day is a welcome break and everyone looks forward to it but without much anticipation.
Mid-February through spring break (at end of March to mid-April) is the "meat" of the school year when there are no interruptions (other than a report card) and the routine is solid. Heavy assignments (reports/essays) may be given to high school students during this time period. Spring break is a very welcome relief for everyone.
Unfortunately, after spring break students minds are not on academics. The weather is turning better in most places and a welcome respite from being confined for 4-6 months. Sometimes districts will have another round of parent conferences when progress/report card grades are out.
Late spring is also when most states do their state testing; although some states begin as early as November, the "big push" for high scores is in the spring. Teachers pressure students to do well, work hard, pay attention, use strategies they have been taught, and most do. Teachers may also be racing to present information they think might be on the tests (mostly at middle and secondary levels). During testing, schools often give students snacks and require halls to be "extra quiet". Pressure is on students to comply and perform well. This pressure often brings out the worst in many, because they know they can't do well and/or tolerate the pressure. When the testing sessions are done, they "rejoice" quite vocally and actively.
Students take the state tests anywhere between mid-April and late May. The school year may end at the end of May or the middle of June. As far as students are concerned, when state tests are done, they are done. Attitudes toward school and assignments are poor and grades start to decline. Good weather only exacerbates their attitudes, because they are looking forward to summer vacation. Those who have fallen behind either give up entirely or try to race to submit overdue work (these are usually the athletes who want to be eligible for fall sports next year). The last week of school is a trying time for teachers and students alike; everyone wants it done with, but completions have to happen. High school and some middle schools have final exams during the last week. Seniors usually have theirs done a week before everyone else so they can be released from school early (graduation practice being the rationale from limiting those who will disrupt the entire school with pranks, cutting classes, shouting and horse playing in the halls).
Relief and joy are the last week of school. It is over and vacation is ahead. It will resume the same cycle the next year.
All children can succeed in school. Parents can help their children by teaching the foundational skills that schools presume children have. Without the foundation for schools' academic instruction, children needlessly struggle and/or fail. Their future becomes affected because they then believe they are less than others, not able to succeed or achieve or provide for themselves or their families. Visit http://parentsteachkids.com to learn how to directly help your child and http://easyschoolsuccess.com to learn what is needed for education reform efforts to be successful.
By Jennifer Little
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