By Jamie Simpson
Positive reinforcement and praise work well with children of all ages, but especially with younger children learning limits and goals. Allowing a child to see their accomplishments by using a reward chart keeps the child on track to achieving goals set by parents.
Stickers are a valuable tool when giving rewards for a job well done. Whether it be for potty training, learning manners, grades in school or even with household chores, putting stickers to work and watching them add up to a special reward is exciting and satisfying for children. They're fun and different - two important elements of anything which you'd like to interest your child.
The first step in creating a learning tool with reward charts is to first sit down with the child and make the chart together. Allow the child to express their creativity and be an active participant in the project. Use bright colours and paints and glitter to dress up their chart. Take time to discuss how the child will use the chart on their learning level. Create points where there will be a reward for their hard work and let the child have some decision in the stickers they use.
Hang the reward chart on their level so that when they receive the sticker they can place it in the proper spot on the chart themselves. If the child has lost the privilege of receiving a reward, then make sure that you explain to the child why they did not earn it. Encourage them to have another chance at earning one. This teaches the child limits and consequences for their actions and allows them to realise that they can continue to meet their goal. Creating a lot of excitement filling in the chart motivates children.
Chore charts are useful with older, school aged children. Assigning children jobs that they can follow through on helps them to understand responsibility and honouring commitments later in life. Give age appropriate chores around the house. Allow them to keep track of them on a chart and this will give them great satisfaction in their work. As they fill in the chart they can physically see their progress to earning wages. Earning money is a great motivator for older children.
Encouragement, praise and offering positive reinforcement with rules and goals will build confidence and self-esteem. Using stickers is a valuable tool for a parent to teach children and allows a child to learn lasting lessons that they will carry with them through life.
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