By Darrel Jones
Motivating your Children can have an Enormous Effect on their lives. You have seen so many children in the past 20 years have a Tremendous amount of changes in their lives, due to the Increase in Drugs & Alcohol, Drug Related Disease, Technology, and Parental Economics.
First let's look at the Drug & Alcohol Situation, and then we'll look at Prescription Drugs. Easier access is a Big Part of the Problem. There are more Drug Pushers (sellers) than ever before, with new techniques on getting Drugs in to your kids hands. The Internet used hourly, to contact kids through certain Coded Words & Phrases, sometimes makes Connections very easy.
Technology has allowed a large amount of Forged Documents such as I.D. Cards, Drivers Licenses etc., which have become very common place in fooling businesses, to purchase alcohol among other things. Pills are widely available online, only by stating or checking a box indicating that you are 18 or 21 years of age. More than ever, you know of many of your friends and relatives who are forced to have both members of their families work longer and sometimes stranger hours due to today's' Economics.
Todays' Economics being as they are, larger home payments, larger car payments, more costly fuel for home and car, and a major rise in College Education and so on. You and I find ourselves spending more time away from our children due to these factors. When in reality you should be spending more Motivating Your Children.
Children's supervision in some cases is almost nonexistent. So, it's easy to see why Tommy or Tina develop bad habits at home. Kids communicate to each other by text about mom and dad's pills or alcohol cabinet having easy access. So you can see the temptations are there. If you don't Motivate your children in a Positive Manner, someone may find a Negative Manner to influence them.
At the beginning of our HIV Crisis, when needles were being passed around from drug user to drug user, it seemed like the disease spread like wildfire. It was easy to hide, so it was passed along as the use of cocaine users as well as other illegal drug users, not the general population. So it wasn't as isolated as the general population was lead to believe.
Mary and I have spoken to many drug users and pushers over the years and know this field all too well. That's part of the reason for our formation of C.C.A.A.D., Concerned Coaches and Athletes Against Drugs. It enabled us to reach Kids and Parents through our Motivational Speaker Program, nationally. High Schools, Colleges, Civic Organizations, and the like.
Meeting lot of individual parents is not possible. So through larger audiences and our Guide and Monthly News Letter it has helped many parents work with their children. Parents must understand how Important it is to have Personal Motivating Contact with their Children on a regular basis about these dangers. Motivating Your Children should be and on going function in your family.
As you can see by the Picture and accompanying article below, Darrel made a Big Mistake getting into a car with a friend celebrating the last payment on that car. The Driver was Drinking, Darrel was not, but Due to that mistake Five Years later he underwent a four hour surgery for a Basketball Injury believed to be the result of injuries sustained from the car accident. That surgery would end Darrel's Baseball Career and change his Life Forever. He found out then you must be In charge of Your Destiny!
While under hospital supervision, Darrel was repeatedly given at least 20 different Narcotics including Demerol, Morphine, and Talwin, upon which he became severely dependent. Pain relief became secondary to the irresistible high he experienced from the narcotics, and withdrawal caused extreme anxiety between shots. You can see why both Darrel and I believe in the importance of communicating with your children on a regular basis.
Let us address a few of the methods we use. A Daily if Possible, but weekly for sure Goal Setting Meeting or Program in your Household is a must. Even at a young age you need to speak with your children about the Ramifications of Drug, Smoking, and other Substance Abuse. Use details of the Consequences of their use. If you are going to Motivate Children, it is wise to use Inspiring Language. You need to know about the kids they hang around with, their back grounds, and their parents back grounds. Always update these weekly, and watch for changes in your kids, their friends, and parents behavior. Keep close tabs on your Liquor, Pills, Smoking Material, and any other drug or potential habit forming items such as Spray Paint or Huffing Substances.
Children need to be aware of long-term consequences of their actions in terms that are age appropriate.
Inspiring conversations and in depth casual probing in regards to School Studies, Career thoughts, Sports and Bullying, should also be a part these meetings. Be truthful with questions and answers.
If you don't know the questions or what some of the proper answers should be, that's fine. We are here to help you with Motivating Your Children, we know the Motivating System very well. For over 20 years we have been Inspiring people Nationally.
I suggest following a Guide or Template for School Studies, Drug and Substance Abuse, Daily Life and Career Thoughts to form and in depth program. All of this can be done in a very Inspirational and Positive Manner. After a while your System will become second nature and have a definite rhythm to it. When done properly these meetings will be enjoyable with lots of feedback and develop a great line of communication with your children. You'll then understand why Motivating Your Children is so Important to their lives.
Darrel and Mary are Two Master Motivaters with Many years of experience with children, and their Behavioral Difficulties. We Want to Invite You to our website; http://www.We-Will-Motivate-You-Every-Day.com for and in depth look at our many possible solutions to your children's matters. It could make major difference in your life. We will Motivate you every day!
Motivating your Children can have an Enormous Effect on their lives. You have seen so many children in the past 20 years have a Tremendous amount of changes in their lives, due to the Increase in Drugs & Alcohol, Drug Related Disease, Technology, and Parental Economics.
First let's look at the Drug & Alcohol Situation, and then we'll look at Prescription Drugs. Easier access is a Big Part of the Problem. There are more Drug Pushers (sellers) than ever before, with new techniques on getting Drugs in to your kids hands. The Internet used hourly, to contact kids through certain Coded Words & Phrases, sometimes makes Connections very easy.
Technology has allowed a large amount of Forged Documents such as I.D. Cards, Drivers Licenses etc., which have become very common place in fooling businesses, to purchase alcohol among other things. Pills are widely available online, only by stating or checking a box indicating that you are 18 or 21 years of age. More than ever, you know of many of your friends and relatives who are forced to have both members of their families work longer and sometimes stranger hours due to today's' Economics.
Todays' Economics being as they are, larger home payments, larger car payments, more costly fuel for home and car, and a major rise in College Education and so on. You and I find ourselves spending more time away from our children due to these factors. When in reality you should be spending more Motivating Your Children.
Children's supervision in some cases is almost nonexistent. So, it's easy to see why Tommy or Tina develop bad habits at home. Kids communicate to each other by text about mom and dad's pills or alcohol cabinet having easy access. So you can see the temptations are there. If you don't Motivate your children in a Positive Manner, someone may find a Negative Manner to influence them.
At the beginning of our HIV Crisis, when needles were being passed around from drug user to drug user, it seemed like the disease spread like wildfire. It was easy to hide, so it was passed along as the use of cocaine users as well as other illegal drug users, not the general population. So it wasn't as isolated as the general population was lead to believe.
Mary and I have spoken to many drug users and pushers over the years and know this field all too well. That's part of the reason for our formation of C.C.A.A.D., Concerned Coaches and Athletes Against Drugs. It enabled us to reach Kids and Parents through our Motivational Speaker Program, nationally. High Schools, Colleges, Civic Organizations, and the like.
Meeting lot of individual parents is not possible. So through larger audiences and our Guide and Monthly News Letter it has helped many parents work with their children. Parents must understand how Important it is to have Personal Motivating Contact with their Children on a regular basis about these dangers. Motivating Your Children should be and on going function in your family.
As you can see by the Picture and accompanying article below, Darrel made a Big Mistake getting into a car with a friend celebrating the last payment on that car. The Driver was Drinking, Darrel was not, but Due to that mistake Five Years later he underwent a four hour surgery for a Basketball Injury believed to be the result of injuries sustained from the car accident. That surgery would end Darrel's Baseball Career and change his Life Forever. He found out then you must be In charge of Your Destiny!
While under hospital supervision, Darrel was repeatedly given at least 20 different Narcotics including Demerol, Morphine, and Talwin, upon which he became severely dependent. Pain relief became secondary to the irresistible high he experienced from the narcotics, and withdrawal caused extreme anxiety between shots. You can see why both Darrel and I believe in the importance of communicating with your children on a regular basis.
Let us address a few of the methods we use. A Daily if Possible, but weekly for sure Goal Setting Meeting or Program in your Household is a must. Even at a young age you need to speak with your children about the Ramifications of Drug, Smoking, and other Substance Abuse. Use details of the Consequences of their use. If you are going to Motivate Children, it is wise to use Inspiring Language. You need to know about the kids they hang around with, their back grounds, and their parents back grounds. Always update these weekly, and watch for changes in your kids, their friends, and parents behavior. Keep close tabs on your Liquor, Pills, Smoking Material, and any other drug or potential habit forming items such as Spray Paint or Huffing Substances.
Children need to be aware of long-term consequences of their actions in terms that are age appropriate.
Inspiring conversations and in depth casual probing in regards to School Studies, Career thoughts, Sports and Bullying, should also be a part these meetings. Be truthful with questions and answers.
If you don't know the questions or what some of the proper answers should be, that's fine. We are here to help you with Motivating Your Children, we know the Motivating System very well. For over 20 years we have been Inspiring people Nationally.
I suggest following a Guide or Template for School Studies, Drug and Substance Abuse, Daily Life and Career Thoughts to form and in depth program. All of this can be done in a very Inspirational and Positive Manner. After a while your System will become second nature and have a definite rhythm to it. When done properly these meetings will be enjoyable with lots of feedback and develop a great line of communication with your children. You'll then understand why Motivating Your Children is so Important to their lives.
Darrel and Mary are Two Master Motivaters with Many years of experience with children, and their Behavioral Difficulties. We Want to Invite You to our website; http://www.We-Will-Motivate-You-Every-Day.com for and in depth look at our many possible solutions to your children's matters. It could make major difference in your life. We will Motivate you every day!
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