By Livy Jo

Dermatologists and pediatricians concur that tween skin is undoubtedly the finest skin we will ever have in our lives. Discouraging? Yes, but there is a way to prolong the best skin age. When children are babies, we overwhelm them with a massive amount of infant merchandise to pacify, nourish, and defend their baby skin. Then when they develop into tweens and begin maintaining themselves, there aren't any products made for them to soothe, moisturize and protect their skin and hair.

As parents, you want safe, gentle ingredients in your daughters' products. Tween "beauty" should be about cleansing and protecting one's face, hair and body, not applying irritating glitter, or wearing heavy perfume or strident colours. Clean, healthy, and happy, those are the communication messages our girls should be getting. They don't need to be bombarded with beauty standards and imagery that are inappropriate for girls 7-14. Medical authorities came to an agreement that while makeup for this age group could be harmful to their skin, using age-appropriate recipes in facial beauty goods could aid to build respectable hygiene practices. Products with mild recipes that purify, nourish and defend skin are a constructive jump to a life-long routine of respectable cleanliness and good well skin.

Whatever age girls begin puberty, it is certainly not too premature to get them underway on good hygiene. Consistent regular cleansing in the morning, at night, and subsequently after sports or activities, with an appropriate tween skin care product, is a affirmative way to build healthy skin behaviors. Regulating merchandise to the simple basics: cleansing, moisturizing, and defending skin from sun destruction is a good technique to begin. Elude products that pressure beauty or cover-ups at this premature age, and reassure an emphasis on strong, natural-looking skin.

Health specialists approve: the important part to a healthy grasp of facial attractiveness products is schooling and appropriate use of restricted products. Recipes should be mild, and ideally--formulated for juvenile skin. Juvenile skin should not be subjected to cruel, drying cleansers, which impulsively dry and disturb skin. That is the motivation to why teen and adult beauty products are possibly harmful to tween skin. Constructing the practice of good skin care can aid to lessen acne difficulties-just by retaining skin hygienic and well. While maturing is not a thought at this phase of life, beginning good skin care behaviors in the tween years can defend fresh skin from upcoming skin impairment, such as red marks, acne scars, dark spots and irregular skin tones.

In the meantime, the greatest skin harm occurs earlier then age of seventeen, girls who begin respectable skin care at this time are guaranteeing better skin for their future.

By Mishael Witty

What do you get the teen that has everything? How about the teen you don't know very well? Gift exchanges are becoming more popular than ever at holiday parties for teens. Often, these gifts have to be within a certain price range (usually pretty cheap), but you also want them to be something that others will enjoy. Here are a few ideas for gifts that should appeal to any teen.

Great gifts for teen girls: It's usually very easy to find inexpensive gifts that will appeal to teen girls. Think cosmetics. Lip glosses (especially flavored ones like Lip Smackers) are always popular, and you can usually find them in cute little gift sets in drugstores. Anything Bath and Body Works is also a good bet. Can't decide on one fragrance? Get a $10 Bath and Body Works gift card, so the lucky girl can pick out whatever she wants. Looking for something a little different? Fill a gift bag with some cute hair accessories and your must-have hair product. If you love it, chances are others will, too! For something especially fun and individualized, try nail stickers! Amazon has a set of 100 fimo sticks with different designs for less than $8. You will probably want to add a package of nail glue in the gift bag, too, so that your recipient will be able to get the most out of the gift.

Great gifts for teen guys: It's sometimes more difficult to find gifts for the teen boy in your life. One sure thing is anything electronic, although electronics can get pricy. Look for cheap Xbox games. There are some that sell for $10 or less at Walmart, like Sega Superstars Tennis. Or what about a new pair of earbuds? These things are cheap, but popular, and they're always getting lost or broken. Most teenage boys could always use an extra pair or two. Walmart also has fabulous Timex digital sport watches for $12, so if your gift price limit is $10, you can cheat just a little bit, and no one will know the difference. Another great gift for teen guys is any of the Axe body spray gifts. Amazon has a great travel set with body spray, shampoo, and shower gel for less than $9. Or look for the latest comic book or tech or auto trade magazine. Buy a few and wrap them together for an even better present.

The holidays are a great time to give gifts, but these gift ideas will work well for any time of the year and for any occasion. So take this list, grab your cash or debit card, and get shopping!

Mishael Austin Witty is a freelance writer and editor and mother of two. Her interests are many, and she writes about most of them.

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By Brenda L Hopkins

Prom night is one of the most important nights in a senior's high school life. It is a night to relax and have fun before the pressure of SATs, picking a college, and graduation overwhelms them. The theme of this big night is undoubtedly the most import thing to them, it will decide what the wear, how they have their hair done, and what they arrive in.

A fairytale theme evokes Cinderella style dresses and prince Charming tuxedos with students arriving in horse drawn carriages. The decorations could include towering castle turrets and colors of blue and pink. A great favor to tie this theme together may include printed champagne glasses or customized bubbles.

Welcome to the jungle brings out the animal in everyone with plenty of leopard and zebra prints to go around. Lush jungle trees and fierce lions play on this theme. A fog machine adds to the jungle like appearance and what better then bamboo picture frames to mark this wild night.

"The City that Never Sleeps" New York City what a great way to dance the night away. Beautiful fashion trendy dresses and high heels with dapper tuxedos bring out the fashionistia in everyone. Towering sky scrapers and famous street signs decorate the venue and since everyone is a star tonight an LED star shaped key chain or star shaped compact would make the perfect favor.

Arabian Nights: Think Aladdin and the magic carpet. Beautiful Arabian inspired dresses and turbans. The hall decorated with beautiful carpets, magic lamps, and splashes of bright color everywhere. Large fountains and beautiful flowers play on this exotic theme. A candle to mimic the light given off by the magic lamp makes a great favor have it personalized with genie so everyone can make a wish come true tonight.

Casino Night is another great prom theme. A glittering casino prom theme provides a wonderful night of fun and excitement. Las Vegas prom theme decorations: cards, dice and slot machines for the wall decor. Then the cool games setup like black jack, craps and roulette tables. With all the games to play this will make your prom night a big hit.

Whatever the theme be sure to make it a night to remember with the perfect favor for them to take home. Most prom favors can be personalized with the school name, prom theme, and date. It can even be done in the school colors. Some popular favors include personalized mint tins, CD and DVD cases, cell phone covers and small items like lip balm, mints, candy bars and money clips.

By Shaun A Maxwell

Bullies have been around longer than schoolyards themselves. While bullying is not new, the technology and methods some are using today, are.

What is cyberbullying?

It is when a child, preteen or teenager is tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, embarrassed or otherwise targeted by another child, preteen or teenager using internet, interactive and digital technologies or mobile phones. These include interactive gaming, instant messaging, text and video text messaging. Adults are never called cyberbullies. Once an adult is involved it is classified differently and legally it is handled differently.

Methods that cyberbullies use are really limitless. It is only the bully's own imagination and access to technology that sets their boundaries. Another interesting statistic shows that often, cyber bullies change the role that they play. They can go from being a victim to a bully and back again.

Generally, there are two types of cyberbullying. The first is direct attacks. This is when a child, preteen or teen directly sends messages, pictures and the like via the technology available to them. The second type is cyberbullying by proxy. This involves using others to bully the target. The accomplice's in this type of bullying may not even be aware of what is actually happening. This type of bullying is particularly dangerous when adults get involved.

Methods Used by cyberbullies

What are some methods that cyberbullies use? Here are a few examples:

    A common form of cyberbullying is in the form of text or IM messages. This method can be as simple as sending rude, hurtful texts to the victim themselves or spreading rumors or hateful messages to others about the victim. Another way texting is used by these bullies is they send numerous texts to their victim and run up the cell phone bill. This makes for angry parents. IM is used at times in a similar way to cell phone texting. Other uses also include impersonating the victim by using a similar name. The bully will then say things the victim wouldn't to their friends and family. This can be hurtful and damage relationships.

    Stealing passwords is used as another form of harassment. By doing this a bully can hack a computer, change the profile of the victim- including race, age, sex etc., lock victim's out of their accounts and chat with others using the victim's name.

    Blogs, or on-line journals can be used to damage one's reputation. Along with that, internet polling has gained popularity and can be equally damaging. Others can comment and give opinions about the victim. In internet polling questions about who's this and who's that as voted by their peers is seeing an increase.

    Sending e-mails, as with texting is a common form of harassment as well. It is popular for cyberbullies to send explicit photos (these can be taken in locker rooms, bathrooms and other private locations) to countless others. The internet is seeing an increase in the number of these types of videos posted. Other ways e-mail is used is by sending spyware, viruses and hacking programs. Cyberbullies can use these to gain access to the victim's computer or wipe it clean by erasing files and the like.

By Jennifer Untermeyer

With a myriad of educational games on the market to do, it can be difficult to select appropriate ones for kids. This article will help you navigate the maze of options and find educational games that will be played with and enjoyed, rather than gathering dust on a game room shelf. The best educational games actively engage kids to think or do something, are fun and meet one or more of the following criteria:

· Foster learning through the development of new skills or the reinforcement of existing ones.

· Encourage creativity.

· Spark the imagination.

· Develop fine motor skills.

While games should be challenging, it is important that they not be too difficult or complex as to lead to frustration. Look at the rules for the game. If they are more than a few pages, consider if your child will be willing to learn them (or if they can be simplified). Games that are too complex to learn in a few minutes are much more likely to sit on a shelf. However, games that are quick to learn but difficult to master; such as classics like checkers, Othello and chess; are likely to be played repeatedly.

Think outside the box, especially for toddler educational games. Stacking cups, building blocks and chunky puzzles are perfect for toddlers learning grasping and other fine motor skills. The associated actions, such as knocking down the stack, will help keep toddlers entertained for longer and continue to build valuable skills.

Look for educational games in unusual places. Art stores often have complex Scratch Art, stained glass coloring pages, math pattern books and other types of media that are fun, educational and different. Work on color mixing by experimenting with homemade play dough and food coloring or learn common kitchen science with experiments using common household ingredients.

Look for fun games and activities that focus on skill development areas. For instance, you can build problem solving skills with brain-teasers that range from easy to complex. Beginning with ones that are easy builds confidence so that kids are willing to tackle the complex tasks in the harder levels.

Do not overlook the classic games in the search for something new and different. Classic games stand the test of time for a reason and are often offer the best in simple strategy games. A game does not need a 20 page instruction booklet to be educational.

Finally, look for games that you, as the purchaser, would like to play. Someone is going to be playing with the kids so it should be fun and interesting for you as well.

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By Rose John

Parenting is a highly responsible and equally difficult task especially when you have to deal with your full of life, freedom-craving and adamant teenagers. Until then you and your kids might have understood each other very well and had a very loving and strong relationship between you. All of a sudden you, as parents find it hard to comprehend anything they say and may be dumbfounded as to what to say to them and how. Your teenagers, similarly, no more find it easy to discuss things with you and they prefer to bond better with their friends and peers, which again irritates and annoys parents. Teenage is a period when children are faced with a lot of new experiences and some may adjust well to it while some turn rebellious and out-of-control. As parents, it becomes your duty and responsibility to intervene in their lives, whether they like it or not, the moment you sense something is wrong. In fact, here are a few tips which could certainly prove handy in successfully parenting difficult teens.

1. Keep communication channels open between you and your teenager

Even though your teenager might not want to talk to you, make it a point to talk to them in an unassuming and not-so-deliberate manner. Everyone hates advice, especially teenagers. They always feel they know what's right for them. So rather than fixing a time and place before hand and summoning them like their school principal does, try to initiate a friendly chat while driving them to school or over dinner or even while watching a show. Remember that you have passed that particular stage and you know what it is to be there. Just communicate that with your teenager and then they will be more or less comfortable to talk and discuss things with you.

2. Spend time with your teenager

The last thing on a teenager's mind would be to spend time with their parents, have you ever wondered why? It's not because they don't like your company, it's just that they are probably afraid that you might bombard them with questions concerning their lives and they might have to face a difficult situation which they do not know how to handle. So spending a cool and no-question evening at least once in two weeks may be just by going for a stroll in the park or for a movie can do the trick. If you as parents can be like one of their friends, they will acknowledge you and talk and even luckily listen to you.

3. Be able to say a firm "no" when absolutely necessary

Once you realize that your teenager is having trouble, take charge of the situation. You need not worry over more rebellious behavior from their side if you say a firm no for absolutely unacceptable behaviors. As long as you don't keep on saying no for each and everything they do, they will value your decision and judgment even if it isn't in their favor. Drugs, alcohol and too many late nights certainly fall under the category of unacceptable behavior and you as parents must drive home this idea to your teenagers so that they very well know what to expect.

4. Get professional help

Some teenagers will never come around no matter what you try and will continue to become more defiant and more rebellious. In such cases, the sooner you get professional help, the better. Rather than sitting depressed and trying to figure out the reason behind your teen's behavior, seek the help of a licensed therapist or a counselor who will recommend the necessary steps to be taken.

By GR Melnick

Not many students can get through a school day without either being bullied or seeing someone being bullied. With national odds at 60% of teens, witnessing bullying it's a good bet you are seeing your fair share.

Bullying comes in three major forms, physical, psychological, and cyber. We will deal with the cyber bully in another section.

Boys have a tendency to physical bully doing things like shoving, tripping, or punching. For the girl bullies the weapons of choice are things like malicious gossip, taunting or teasing.

Bullies targets of choice are most often the student who is thought of as being different. It might be because of appearance, social position, looks, race or religion. The easiest targets for bullies are the students who don't belong to a popular group. Bullies are not brave, not really so they choose those they consider the most vulnerable, the stragglers, much like a lion cutting a vulnerable zebra from the herd.

The stress of bullying can lead to physical trauma such as stomach pains, loss of appetite and migraine types of headaches. The mental stresses such as the feelings of shame, anxiety of waiting for the next attack, the feeling of being an outsider can lead to sadness and even suicide.

If you are doing the bullying or are part of a group doing bullying stop and give what you are doing some thought? For the person you are picking on life could be intolerable. How do you know whether you are a bully?

Do you pick on kids smaller than you?
Do you enjoy teasing people?
Do you laugh at others mistakes but get mad if they laugh at yours?
Do you blame others for anything that goes wrong in your life?
Do you want to seem tough or a leader?
Do you feel you always have to be right?
Do you feel you always have to be a success at whatever you do?
Do you get angry when someone else does something better than you?

If you answer yes to more than two of these questions, it is possible you might well be a bully and not even be aware of it.

How would you feel if someone you bullied committed suicide and left a note saying you were the cause of the suicide? Picture yourself trying to explain your conduct to the victim's family, or to your family. Imagine what rumors will fly around the school, and around the neighborhood. You would have to live with this the rest of your life. When your actions cause the destruction of a life, being sorry does not count.

Now switch and let's say you are the victim of bullying. What can you do about it before it gets too out of hand? Mental health experts tell us that there are many reasons a person becomes a bully, but frankly you could care less if you are the person being bullied. Your only worry is how to end it.

So here are some things you can try to put an end to the problem:

1. Avoid being alone as much as possible. If you don't have some friends of your own make a real effort to make some. Chances are you are not the only one being picked on and the old saying that there is strength in numbers is true.

2. Don't for one minute believe you deserve being bullied. For whatever reason you might be different, you might not fit in, but someday you could well end being their boss. Feel good about yourself, even if you have to pretend at the start. You are the only person who can give the bully a win by blaming yourself for the treatment.

3. Walk away. Letting the bully get under your skin is a reward for him. Their ego is fed when you rise to their taunts. Is that something you really want to do? Bullies are like stray dogs, once you feed them they will keep coming back for more.

4. Don't get physical. If the bully thought for one minute that you were a physical threat you would not be picked on. So unless you have some sort of kung fu talent keep your cool.

5. Dealing with gossip. Sad but sure people love to gossip. Adults do it, kids do it, and seldom if ever does anyone think of the consequences to the person they are gossiping about. The only way to handle it is to find a few friends, explain how the gossip is hurting you and then set the record straight. Let them know you would not believe gossip about them and would defend them and you would hope they do the same for you.

6. Talk to a teacher or your parents. Ya I know this is a tough one. No teen likes having an adult fight their battles for them, but sometimes you have no choice. Look, their job is to give you the best start in life they can and defending you against bullying are part of that job. Tell them you have a problem, and you need advice on how to deal with it. By doing it this way, that is asking for advice on how to deal with it, you are not asking them to handle it for you. What they do with it from that point on is up to you. Consider the different choices open to you and then choose the one that works the best for you.

7. Off the wall ideas. These are ideas that are a bit different but worth at least thinking about.

Consider a personal alarm. This is a small hand held device about the same size as a car door opener. When pressed it puts out a very loud 130 db alarm. You can get them on the net for anywhere from $10 to $20. Keep it with you if you really feel you are in danger. It might also provide you a feeling of security.

Try negotiation. See whether the bully will tell you why you were chosen to be picked upon. Then ask what you could do to change the situation. Let the bully know that what is fun for him is pain for you. Sometimes bullies are just clueless about the effects of their actions. If you think the bully could be violent then choose a time to negotiate when someone is around who could protect you. Otherwise just make sure none of the bullies group are near at hand so there is no audience to play to.

Fantasize the future. Realize that there will be a time when you and the bully will go your different ways. Until that day think about some point in the future where you are the person in power and the bully is the one seeking your help. Even if it never happens it is still fun to think about that time. It's sort of like buying a one dollar lottery tick and then thinking about how you would spend the millions you will win.

G. R. Melnick is the author of the book I Am Worth Knowing, a guide on how to make friends for those who are shy. In addition a web site at http://www.iamworthknowing.com with tips and advice for teens who want to live life on their terms.

By Patrick Esposito

The unemployment problem in this country is a harbinger for our next president to give serious consideration to. There are many people who at one time have had a well-paying job, and held a respectful place in their community. Today those people are driving cabs or working at a fast food joint just to help pay the bills. Sometimes people take it for granted that kids need to make money too. When kids have money, they spend it and help our economy. Kids need to make money, but how can a kid make money when many adults are unemployed? Has the job market retracted for kids the same way it has for adults? When the powers that be talk about creating jobs, kids don't get mentioned, but how can a kid make money?

Many kids are ambitious, motivated, and have lots of energy. Kids are fun to work with and many want to learn and have responsibility. How can a kid make money though if the jobs are not available? Another trait that kids have is that they are resilient, and they are not afraid to do the jobs that some adults may be reluctant to do. Today's kids are tomorrow's workforce, and when kids work it helps build character, confidence, and independence. Since there is a minimum age to be able to start working on the books, the question again rings loud "How can a kid make money?

It would certainly seem that kids are entrepreneurial by nature. Whenever we see a lemonade stand, we intuitively know that there is a young person behind this money making venture. Kids don't need to make top dollar to pay the bills, so they are open to opportunities that adults will shun. Kids will help clean the house, mow the lawn, rake the leaves, and clean the garage. So when we ask the question "How can a kid make money?" we don't have to look far for answers. A kid can deliver newspapers, run errands, wash cars, and walk the dog. Some adults may even feel a little envious realizing how many opportunities that there are for kids.

Kids are usually not shy about offering their services to someone. Once a kid is old enough, they want to babysit, especially girls. The boys may offer to do some painting. While the jobs or opportunities are not always readily apparent, the kids with the desire, fortitude, and insight will find their rainbow that will hold their pot of gold. How can a kid make money? It is a good question to ask kids and see their imagination go to work. They may surprise you and come up with something you may not have thought of. How many times do you wish you could find someone to pull weeds, or wash the car? Girl Scout cookies have not become one of the biggest selling cookies in the world for nothing. With a ready, willing, and ready workforce in place, our country is headed in the right direction.

Pat Esposito has been involved in real estate since 1982 years as an investor, trainer, and consultant. He is the author of The Best Investment You Can Make, and The Informed Real Estate Investor and is the founder of http://www.Abundantlife1.com Check out this website. It has lots of information for those who want to have an abundant life.

By Mishael Witty

It's hard to be a teenager, and it's even harder to be a Christian teenager. Every day, Christians are bombarded with messages from their peers and the world around them, telling them they have to act a certain way and do certain things in order to be accepted. Unfortunately, many of these things teens are told they "must" do go directly against God's will for their lives.

The Christian teen must spend time in regular Bible study and prayer. This is the only way he/she will mature to be the man/woman God wants him/her to be. What does God desire for His people? That they be holy as He is holy (see Leviticus 11:44, 19:20, 20:7; 1 Peter 1:16). "Holy," in this case, means set apart or consecrated. The Christian must set him/herself apart from the rest of the world in order to become more like Christ. That is the goal for every Christian (see Ephesians 4:15, 22-24).

The Bible truly has answers for people in all stages and from all walks of life. It speaks both directly and indirectly to many of the issues teens face on a daily basis. Here are just a few verses that will guide any teen to some much-needed answers and a closer walk with the Lord.

    Peer Pressure. Simply defined, this is the influence a teen's so-called friends have over him/her to change his/her beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors to fit in with the norm. It should not be difficult to see that these influences will be doubly harmful for the Christian teen who does not want to isolate him/herself from the rest of the world. What does the Bible say about peer pressure? Basically, don't worry about it. Look at what Paul says in Galatians 1:10. The key to remember here is that Christian teens should value God and what He says more than they value what their peers say about them. Easier said than done, right? But no one ever said the Christian life was easy!

    Dating. The Christian teen is called to a higher standard of purity and holiness than his/her non-believing peers. The Bible advises Christians to only date other Christians (see 2 Corinthians 6:14). There is a very good reason for this. While it is true that a believer can influence his/her non-believing friends for the better, it is more often the case that the believer will get dragged back down into ungodly living. God created sex, but He created it to be between one man and one woman who stayed with each other for their entire lives. So many times, teen relationships do not last more than a few years, if that long. Most people do not marry their high school sweetheart. Throw sex into the mix, and Christian teens are setting themselves up for any number of physical, emotional, and spiritual difficulties (see 1 Corinthians 6:18-19

    Relationships with Parents. The Bible commands children to behave in a certain way toward their parents. Most Christian teens are familiar with the verse, "Honor your father and your mother" (Exodus 20:12, ASV), but how many realize that that particular command is followed by a promise? "...that your days may be prolonged in the land which the Lord your God gives you." This promise is repeated in both the Old and New Testaments. The teen years are often a time of rebellion as the teenager seeks to find his/her own identity in the world. This can be a tough process, and parents can certainly be trying at times because they want their teens to stay little and completely dependent on them for just a little while longer. It's hard to give up control, and it's even harder to wrestle control from someone who doesn't want to give it. The key here is to remember that God has given parents the role as guardians over their children, and because of this, they deserve the respect of their children. Christian teens who seek to honor God need to remember that, even though they may not agree with everything their parents are saying and/or doing, they still need to respect their parents. And, by doing that, they will improve-and even lengthen--their own lives.

    Planning for the Future. For many teens, this may be the first time they have ever seriously considered what they will be "when they grow up." The Christian teen, of course, will be largely concerned with what is God's will for his/her life. God may not always give immediate straight answers regarding the right career path and/or life partner, etc. But the Christian believer can be sure of one thing-God does have a plan, and he will never leave his children to fend for themselves. There are many verses that speak to this fact. These include: Psalm 48:14; Proverbs 3:5-6; Isaiah 58:11; and Jeremiah 29:11.

The Bible has so much more to say to teens on many other issues. There are several teen study bibles on the market now that are easy to read, and they include many helpful insights into how teens can walk the authentic Christian walk. God is the ultimate source of all knowledge, and Christian teens would do well to seek Him in everything.

Mishael Austin Witty is a freelance writer and editor and mother of two. Her interests are many, and she writes about most of them. To see more, visit her HubPages and Squidoo profile pages.

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By Celia Hamilton

I know that seems like such a loaded title as there are so many variables to take into account such as the age of the child, what they want to learn, where they want to learn and so on. But you're reading this article to get a little insight so here goes.

On the subject of age a child is never too young to learn. Research shows that infants are formidable learning machines whose brain doubles in size from birth to 5 years. They don't need books or the internet to learn, they just do it naturally. Take talking for example, they learn this effortlessly, and if exposed to many languages while small, a child can learn many with ease, all without the internet or books.

Another consideration is what you want them to learn. For example if you would like your children to learn to love nature and respect our environment you can teach them by example. If they see that you never litter, you treat animals kindly, you support wildlife programs and so forth they will follow. Conversely if you don't care about things like that, they can also learn to have an uncaring attitude all without the internet or books.

What about kids learning school subjects like Maths, English, Science or History? Which medium would be more helpful, books or the internet?

Well, both have their place.

Nowadays in many schools computers are replacing books and the keyboard is replacing handwriting. In some schools teaching handwriting is optional sometimes replaced by typing instead. This familiarity with the digital world means it would be easy for kids to learn via the internet at school or at home. On the internet you can find a multitude of programs designed to help your child be successful in most school subjects. They often include an online tutor that can give your child one on one help. Your child can submit assignments online and get valuable feedback to help them improve.

What about learning to read, which is the basis for all school subjects? I personally am a great believer in spending time reading books with small children, they can learn to read, learn about stuff they are interested in - like dinosaurs or insects- and at the same time you can strengthen your bond with them.

But let's face it just as handwriting may be soon become obsolete for our kids, ebooks are fast replacing paper books. Amazon, the largest bookseller in the world now sells more ebooks than paperbacks and hard cover combined.

So where does this leave us? With the latest ereaders of course. You can download heaps of books onto your child's ereader, and on some ereaders like the Kindle book reader you can even borrow books from your library. Your child will never run out of books to read, enjoy and learn from, or books for you to read to them.

The movement towards all things digital is obvious and unstoppable. With ereaders both books and the internet can combine to give our kids a head start in this digital world.

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By Celia Hamilton

An absolutely awesome gift for teenagers is the Amazon Kindle. Why do I say this? Well what medium do our gorgeous tech -savvy teens use these days for just about everything? That's right they live in the twitch -speed digital world with everything at their fingertips.

They use all forms of electronic medium to play games, interact with friends, listen to music, watch movies and with a gift of an Amazon Kindle eReader they can now read books.

I think it's great that even though today's teens have been exposed to all things digital from infancy many still love reading. I just checked out Amazon today and they had thousands of titles under "books for teens". All the Kindle eBooks are way cheaper than paperback versions, with prices starting from 99 cents, and if you're a member of Amazon Prime many eBooks are free.

Two years ago I had my nephew from New Zealand staying with me. He is a total bookworm. He's in his early teens and his main genre was killer zombie/vampire/bad alien type books and man could he chew through them. I was run ragged between my local bookshop, library and second hand book store trying to keep up book supplies, I'm not kidding.

What would a book loving teen do with a Kindle? Well, all they need to do is browse Amazon books for a book they want, buy it online and download it onto their Kindle in seconds. I was buying my nephew paperbacks at $20.00 a book minimum, he could now get about four Kindle books for the same price.

There are 7 Kindles to choose from, the Kindle, the Kindle Touch Wi-Fi, Kindle Touch 3G, Kindle Keyboard Wi-Fi, Kindle Keyboard 3G, Kindle DX and the all new Kindle Fire. Thinking about a teenager they would probably like the Kindle Touch 3G or the Kindle Fire. Both devices have only been on the market for about 3 months and cost $149 and $199 respectively.

With the Kindle Touch 3G they would have access to millions of book, newspapers, magazines, games and docs. With the Kindle Fire a teen would have all the above, plus movies, TV shows, music, internet browsing and more, so even if books aren't a high priority for the young person in question, they have a cool compact tablet to play with. The incredibly sleek Kindle Touch features an e-ink touch screen that reads like paper even outside in the sun, something that other medium like an iPad cannot replicate, while the Fire features a full color 7" multi-touch display.

Usability of the Kindle devices for teenagers is child's play as most of them seem to have an innate ability to use any digital device with ease.

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By Colby M Pearce

In my practice one of the more common presenting problems is severe tantrums, or meltdowns, in children. Common reactions among adults who care for these children include frustration, embarrassment, desperation and helplessness. Typically, these otherwise competent parents have tried a range of strategies without finding a strategy or strategies that consistently work. They invariably pose one simple question: what do we do when our child is having a severe tantrum or meltdown? What they really want to know is, what works?

The first answer I provide is that there is no known universally effective strategy for managing severe tantrums and meltdowns. If there was, someone would have written about it by now and made a lot of money! The second answer I offer is that effective management of children's severe tantrums and meltdowns begins with developing an understanding of what is actually going on in the nervous system of a child prior to, and in the midst of, a severe tantrum or meltdown.

The most common belief that exists in the community about severe tantrums and meltdowns is that they are a behaviour management problem. In fact, they are an arousal management problem. Understanding this is the key to effective management of meltdowns and severe tantrums.

By arousal, I mean the level of activity in the child's nervous system. Arousal goes up and down during the day. Arousal generally is lowest when the child is asleep and highest when the child is in a state of high emotion. Arousal is regulated by the brain, though it is influenced by what the child is doing and what is happening in the child's environment. In ordinary circumstances, arousal is thought to go up and down within a regular range, which varies from child to child. Each child's range of arousal is affected by genetic factors (e.g. temperament), early exposure to stress, ongoing maintaining factors (i.e. stressors), and the interaction of these. The temperament infants are born with is involved, as so-called "easy babies" seemingly maintain lower levels of arousal, whereas so-called "slow-to-warm-up" and "difficult" babies maintain higher levels of arousal.

Early stressors include pregnancy and birth complications, early illness, neglect and maltreatment. Early stressors are thought to impact on the structure of the developing brain, particularly those structures that are responsible for the control, or regulation, of arousal[i]. Frequent exposure to stress and prolonged distress, particularly during the first year of life, is thought to result in significant development of the parts of the brain that are associated with high arousal and emotional distress. The result of this is that the central nervous system (i.e. the brain) becomes hard-wired to be highly reactive to sensory stimulation (i.e. sights, sounds, touch, taste, smell) and perceived threats, and vulnerable to maintaining higher levels of arousal. Maintaining factors include stressors associated with higher arousal, including bullying and harassment, learning difficulties and traumatic family circumstances. Maintaining factors also include strength factors that support lower arousal, such as the presence of loving and supportive relationships.

A conventional term for children whose arousal fluctuates in the higher range is that they are "highly strung". Conversely, a conventional term for children whose arousal fluctuates in the lower range is that they are "laid back". Highly strung children are on-the-go, intense, and make mountains out of molehills. Laid back children are comparatively relaxed, calm, unflappable and resilient. It seems to take relatively more stimulation and adversity for laid back children to experience stress. In contrast, highly strung children are more prone to stress, and its associated negative consequences, than laid back children.

Severe tantrums and meltdowns occur when a child's arousal level approaches and exceeds the so-called stress threshold referred to in the above diagram. Brain imaging studies show that when an individual is under stress, or when an individual is exposed to sensory stimulation associated with past traumatic events, there is significant activation of sub-cortical (i.e. inner) regions of the brain and reduced blood flow to areas of the frontal cortex[ii]'[iii](i.e. outer, frontal regions of the brain). The areas of frontal cortex of the brain that experience reduced blood flow are thought to be those that are responsible for logical, rational thinking, planning and responding, and speech. The sub-cortical regions of the brain are responsible for instinctive responses and those that are essential to the survival of the organism, such as emotion, respiration, arousal and the fight-flight-freeze response.

Many behaviours exhibited by children during a severe tantrum or meltdown are associated with a reduced capacity for logical thinking and partial or full activation of the fight-flight-freeze response. These include controlling, aggressive, destructive, hyperactive and unreasonable behaviour. These behaviours are only partly volitional or totally non-volitional, depending on the child's level of distress. The way in which parents (and other caregivers; e.g. teachers and childcare workers) respond to these behaviours either escalates (disciplinary response) or de-escalates (calming response) these behaviours.

So, when a child is having a severe tantrum or meltdown they require interventions that lower their arousal levels. It is only when we do so that the child will begin to behave in a more reasonable manner. I will present strategies for intervening to lower arousal and maintain lower arousal levels more generally in Taming Tantrums; Managing Meltdowns - Part Two.

(Note: much of the material presented in this article can is sourced from my various publications, including my two books: A Short Introduction to Attachment and Attachment Disorder and A Short Introduction to Promoting Resilience in Children.)

(Dislaimer: While it is anticipated that this article will prove to be informative for those who care for children, it is not a substitute for a full assessment and face-to-face support and guidance from an appropriately trained and experienced child development and mental health clinician. If your child is exhibiting severe and recurrent tantrums and meltdowns you should seek further advice about treatment options from your family medical practitioner).

[i]Perry, B.D., Pollard, R.A., Blakley, T.L., Baker, W.L., & Vigilante, D. (1995). Childhood trauma, the

neurobiology of adaptation, and "use-dependent" development of the brain: How "states" Become

"traits", Infant Mental Health Journal, 16(4), 271-289

[ii]Damasio, A.R., Grabowski, T.J., Bechara, A., et al. (2000). Subcortical and cortical brain activity during the

feeling of self-generated emotions. Nature Neuroscience, 3, 1049-1056

[iii]Van Der Kolk, B. (2006). Clinical implications of neuroscience research in PTSD. Annals of the New York

Academy of Sciences, 1-17

Colby is a clinical psychologist with seventeen years experience working in clinical and forensic arenas, including child protection, juvenile offending and family law; the last nine years in his independent practice, Secure Start. Colby has extensive experience conducting assessments, preparing reports and appearing as an expert witness in South Australian and Commonwealth Courts. Colby has also established and directed student training clinics in child protection. Colby is the principal psychologist at Secure Start, a private psychology practice specialising in the provision of child and family psychotherapy services; particularly among children who have experienced complex developmental trauma. Colby is the author of eight journal articles and two internationally-published books; A Short Introduction to Attachment and Attachment Disorder and A Short Introduction to Promoting Resilience in Children. Colby can be contacted at colby@securestart.com.au. Visit Colby's website: http://www.securestart.com.au or Blogsite: http://colbypearce.wordpress.com

By Shaun A Maxwell

Sadly, it appears that cyber bullying isn't going to stop anytime soon. In fact, it gets worse every day. Throughout history we've always had bullies and you probably experienced at least one schoolyard bully yourself. But cyber bullying is different. Cyber bullying is much more harmful. And if your child uses the Internet, there's a good chance he could become a victim.

What is cyber bullying?

Cyber bullying is harassment on a scale much larger than the playground or school cafeteria. It takes place on the Internet, using sites like Facebook and MySpace or chat rooms associated with gaming sites. Bullies also use text messaging to broadcast messages to all their contacts. As you can imagine, with all the options we have for instant, worldwide communication these days, a bully's sphere of influence extends well beyond the edges of the playground.

What makes cyber bullying so prevalent is the fact that the bully can operate anonymously and cast a wider net. Not only does he bully your child, but he drags other bullies into the fray. And because he's hiding behind a computer screen, with other bullies backing him up, he feels even more empowered to terrorize your child. And it might surprise you to know that by the time they hit middle school, girls are the biggest offenders.

What can you do?

Almost 95% of all children between the ages of 12 and 17 use the Internet on a daily basis. Sometimes for hours at a time. In a recent survey, more than 20% of these teens reported they'd experienced some type of cyber bullying, and those numbers are increasing.

The effects of this type of harassment are similar to the feelings you had when you were in school - anger and humiliation - but there's one big difference. Because of the Internet, today's bully can be much more vicious. They can send your child's picture all over the world, with devastating results. The news is filled with young people who have committed suicide because they were victims of cyber bullies.

The most important thing for you to do is be aware. Pay attention to your child's behavior. If he typically spends every afternoon chatting online and he suddenly stops, there may be something wrong. If he's avoiding text messages or you notice emotional changes, show your support and find out what's wrong.

Make sure your child understands how important it is that he keep his personal information off the Internet. Including his pictures. Once something is posted online it never disappears and it's out there for everyone in the world to see.

The best thing your child can do is ignore cyber bullying. Just like that schoolyard bully who bothered you, today's bullies are also looking for attention. Unfortunately, if your child responds to their harassment online that just invites millions of others to join in the fray.

By Tricia L Sharp

Most kids start out playing with their house league hockey teams and practising with their team. That is a great way to start but if the young player wants to hone their skills, it will take more ice time, out of league schooling and off ice training.

The best way is to start with a speed skating clinic. Build up your legs with strength and power. The best way to beat the opponent is by pure speed so building up your stamina is a must. The best defenseman in the NHL are the ones who can out skate their opponents and get back to help protect their goal and help their goalie.

The next thing to work on is your stick handling skills. This is a great item to work on when you don't have access to ice time. You can work on this as off ice training. Put targets on your road hockey net and keep practising until you become a pro at hitting the targets. Once you have accomplished this you can put it into practise on the ice by imagining where the targets would be on the net and aim for them and get past the goalie.

Then start by using a puck or ball for road hockey using the triangle method. Use your stick to handle the ball or puck to the top of the triangle then down to the left and across to the right. Repeat this so that you can do it without missing the puck or ball at all and can do it without looking at the puck or ball. This will make you very confident at your puck handling skills so that when you are on the ice during a game you will be able to stick handle around your opponent and head for the net.

"HE SHOOTS, HE SCORES"

Isn't that what every player wants to hear. At least that's what we all dream about.

Work at these basic skills and improve your game.

If you want to take your game to the next level yet, you should look into hockey schools. There are a lot of great hockey schools available. It just depends what you are looking for. There are spring break hockey schools, christmas break hockey schools and summer hockey schools.

There are hockey schools that are day camps and some that are in-residence camps which include room and board.

The camps most often include on ice instruction, game play and off ice training as well. If you attend an intense in residence hockey camp, my suggestion is that you enroll for at least 2 weeks. The first week you are building up your stamina and your body is adjusting to the new training routine. The second week is when you are honing your skills to the best of your potential. This is when you get the best bang for your buck.

When you return to your team you will see for yourself just how much you have learned and how much you game has improved.

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By Dan Blair

Abuse occurs whenever anyone dominates, exploits or injures another. Abuse can be verbal, emotional, physical and sexual. It is a potent means which makes another feel demeaned, worthless, and hopeless. Survivors often feel to blame and can struggle for a lifetime. The effects of abuse include confused thinking, disrupted memory, regressive behavior, and inability to relate to others. Abuse could lead to chronic depression, anxiety, panic, anger, cutting or self-abuse, with lifetime social and sexual repercussions along with other disorders. Abuse is also linked to chronic addiction and medical issues.

When sexual activity or suggestion is involved, it is extremely harmful, particularly when it involves a trusted relationship. Sexual abuse involves inappropriate or obsessive questions, or controlling behavior, with or without actual physical contact. When confronted, perpetrators may try to explain away their actions. The process of "grooming" by a perpetrator gradually desensitizes a child to sexual misconduct, while offering some sort of incentive to the child that the child and maybe even the parents notice and appreciate without realizing it. During this process the perpetrator tests whether the child will make a complaint. At this point, complaints may not be identified as abuse because they do not meet a definition of sexual misconduct. Many kids won't tell but will try to avoid perpetrator. Meanwhile academic work may take a downturn, or parents may see a withdrawal from friends and activities along with increased irritability.

The following describes what an abused child may be feeling both as a child and as an adult:

Do You Know What It's Like?

This is me... for real:

I have trouble going to sleep

I get anxious in the evening

Most days - waking up overwhelms me

I want to help my children become healthy, real, safe adults

I rarely feel real and safe

I love being active, exercising, sports

I have become increasingly stressed about my body size/type - which is not like me

I am rather obsessive about normal bodily functions

I am easily drawn to do things hurtful to my body (or destructive)

If I feel body sensations - hunger, being full, needing to go to the bathroom, cold, hot, sexual attraction or sensations, loving feelings, anger, sadness, hyper-ness, shallow breathing, rapid heartbeat, sweaty, wet, tired or sick - I feel very stressed and a great deal of anger or anxiety wells up in me.

When I think someone expects or wants something from me, I detach from my body

When I get angry, especially at a person, I feel like I should be dead

I think about other people dying every day

I think about my own death several times a day

I sometimes feel like my hair and scars are moving or "calling" me to "hurt" them

I like the feeling of barely breathing, especially in sexual involvement - like being under the weight of a man

I am drawn to rough sex, "forbidden" sex, force, pain and extreme amounts of orgasms

I have a knee jerk like response to stress - causing me to desire or feel blunt pressure in my [private parts]

When someone hugs me I think of sex (almost always, but not always - thankfully)

I feel like I am not human and I fear that people will notice

I am both in and out of my body when I'm with a group of people or especially something new or stressful

I love nature, I notice small details

I hate the feeling of clothes - but especially the getting dressed or undressed part

I hate the feeling of food in my stomach

I love how I feel when I haven't eaten in a long time (just a day, that's not THAT long)

I feel more real when I am curled up or on the floor

I can "hear" peoples' hearts

I want to be really cared for by my husband

I would probably do better in some ways not married

I think "nice" sex is gross and a lie

I need a safe and stable environment to help me stay sane

I feel like I'm moments away from insanity - more than I'd like

I'm afraid sometimes that I will split apart again

I would like to be done

I'm amazed and in awe that I have lived this long

I'm thankful to God for what He has done in and through me

I long to speak God's Word and write and sing

I love to show kids respect

I like to be alone

I long to be taken care of

I don't know what's true

I lie, but I don't mean to, I just don't trust myself to have the "right" answer

I've worked really hard to have my life be good. It's an amazing life and I'm ashamed that I am so unhappy

Most days I long to sleep, just sleep. No food, no getting dressed, no people (not because life isn't amazing - it is, and not because I'm depressed - I love being active) It's just hard to be me. By: "drejs"

A boy or girl may feel ashamed and confused, even to the point of self-loathing, which also may discourage them from alerting a trusted adult. Kids are often afraid to tell. Talk to a parent, counselor, school administration or other trusted adult. Seeing a counselor does not mean there is something wrong with you.

The author Dan Blair, LMFT, LCPC, NCPC is a marriage and family therapist, counselor, and divorce mediator with Blair Counseling and Mediation in Crystal Lake, Illinois.

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By Jamell Andrews

Tantrums are among the most difficult things that parents have to deal with. When a child is having a meltdown, it can be so frustrating that it may be tempting for the parent to have a meltdown as well. And if you ask anyone who has raised at least one child, they will likely tell you that dealing with tantrums can be an illogical and confounding challenge. It is not like dealing with an angry adult; kids handle their anger in completely different ways, and they rarely respond well to the types of things that we use to defuse tense situations involving grownups.

Of course, since all children are different, there is no single tantrum solution that works for everyone, but if you try these strategies for stopping tantrums, you should be able to find at least one that works for your child.

    Ignoring: There are many things that motivate kids to throw tantrums, but a simple desire for attention is a common motivating factor. By showing your child that you are not swayed by her extreme tactics, you may be able to help cut down on future tantrums. On the other hand, it may just make your child feel more upset in the short term.

    Bribery: Rewarding a child for stopping his tantrum is essentially positive reinforcement for bad behavior, so it probably should not be used on a regular basis. However, when you simply need to get your child to calm down as soon as possible, bribery is often the only quick fix that works. It is especially useful for those public tantrums, such as when a child throws a fit over not getting something at the grocery store.

    Time out: One of the best ways to teach a child that a behavior is inappropriate is to simply remove her from the situation and not allow her to return until she can calm down. It may help to set aside a safe spot in the house to designate as the official timeout area. Make sure it's in a spot where you can watch even while the child feels as if she has been separated from the rest of the home.

    Distraction: In most cases, a child having in the midst of tantrum is not actually as upset as he appears to be. Often you can reveal the deception behind the tears simply by changing the course of the conversation and making the child focus on something else. For example, if a child is having a tantrum over not being allowed to have a cookie, you might quickly change the subject to talk about something exciting that you have planned for tomorrow, or mention a fun activity that he may be interested in.

    Love: Tantrums can occur simply because a child feels momentarily neglected or unloved. Kids, especially very young ones, like to have frequent attention to remind them that they are loved and wanted. When your child is throwing a tantrum, try to soothe the situation by giving him a nice, warm hug and telling him how much you adore him.

    Calmness: As grownups, most of us realize that, when arguing with another adult, raising our voices only makes the situation worse. While children are less logical, they do respond positively to calm speech. As the grownups in the situation, it is our job not to get sucked into the tantrum and to remain calmly removed from the upset feelings. By staying calm and speaking in a soft voice, you will encourage your child to settle down, and you will also set a positive example for how to behave.

    Leave: Children need to learn as soon as possible that acting up in public is not acceptable. One of the most efficient ways to teach them this to leave any time they throw a tantrum in a public place. After you do this a few times, they'll learn that throwing a tantrum is not the way to get what they want. Plus, leaving can serve as a distraction and help get the child's mind on something else.

By Amanda C. Lewis

Front Facing Installation

Convertible car seat can face forward or backward. If you want you can install your it as front facing with a LATCH method.

Without using the LATCH method you can install it as well. Actually, the installing task is not so hard or troublesome task. In most of the countries it is lawful to rotate it from backward to forward facing at weight of 20 lbs as well as at the age of 1.

You should know that forward facing kid seat is the primary stage apparatus which is under the sort of Group 1 where child is placed frontward facing.

Installation with LATCH

For the installing task, first you have to take out the connectors of LATCH from cargo space if they are piled up. After that you have to drag equally connectors by the front facing belt slot at the frontage of it.

It is important to make certain that they are both on the correct side. You have to fix the LATCH connector next to you which is comfortable for you. Then turn it into the appropriate frontward place, and then fix the extra connector to the lingering anchor.

Installation with Belt

Thread your car belt by the frontward facing slot and in the backside of its seat. Tie up the belt and pushing down on it to make tighter. Then you have to make certain that the belt is not distorted.

Turn the lock-off lever down on the opposite side of the car belt buckle to unlock prior to binding its belt if applying shoulders the belt and a lap. When dragging the shoulder belt taut, turn lever back up once more. Finally, you should make sure the car's seat does not shift more than 1 inch in any position at the belt lane.

Rear Facing Installation

National Highway Traffic Safety Administration declares that around 85 percent of car seats are inappropriately installed. But, installing it properly is indeed an important task. You should do it properly.

To install the seat appropriately, first you have to put the seat in the center of the rear seat of your car. Then you have to fold up recline stand below the seat.

Fix as well as tighten its belt to your seat. Then you have to thread your seat belt by the front facing slot. After that, thread your seat belt below the seat pad. You have to buckle your car's seat belt.

Moreover, force down tightly on your seat as well as drag the belt to make tighter. Finally you should check your seat properly for slackness.

Installing convertible car seat is so much important for the protection of your baby. So you should do the task properly.

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By Shelby Strong

When I hear the word "leadership" my mind fills with memories. Some of these memories are of teachers, friends, and family. They are of people I looked up to, who helped me grow and push the edges of my comfort zone. Others are of activities and accomplishments, like swimming 37 widths across a swimming pool, as a young swimmer, without stopping, or returning as a young high school student from a successful service project.

I realize now, as an adult, the lessons learned in these activities helped stretch my comfort zone as a shy young girl. These lessons helped build my character and made me a stronger person--something all parents want for their children. Here are a few way parents can encourage leadership in children of varying ages.

Do things together as a family in your home. This can provide opportunities in an environment where young people are already comfortable. For example you can teach your kids how to do specific tasks or projects and let them try. Make sure you give them positive feedback while letting them have fun. One mother I know sings the steps to making dinner and as they finish the child sings in reply.

Encourage social interaction. Every member of the family is different so you will want to create different settings where each individual can be successful. You can have an array of different activities like art projects, science experiments, and sports. A youth working together with a soccer team to make a common goal can be exhilarating while encouraging team unity and leadership.

Help them plan and organize. Do you have girls who like to dress-up or have parties? Pull out a box of dress up clothes and give her support and encouragement by letting her plan her own party. Let her pick invitations, games, and food for her friends as she plans the party from beginning to end. Costumes can provide growth for girls and boys by putting on a play. Boys might also enjoy the challenge of building and racing Lego cars with their friends. Whether your children are quiet followers or enjoy being in the limelight, give them encouragement and help them feel successful.

Teach them to serve. Service projects are a great way for youth and adults to work together. Every participant should understand the goal and their part in it. Learning why something is done provides motivation to participate and encourages leadership. Everyone should have a piece of the project they are responsible for and they should be allowed flexibility in how they fulfill it.

Whether your family does service, sports, plays with friends or makes dinner together, taking time to reflect on the activity is important. It helps everyone see what they learned, talk about what they would change, be accountable, celebrate little and big accomplishments, make memories, and of course teaches them they can be a positive leader in their lives and the lives of others.

Shelby is the mother of 3 kids and lives in Orem, Utah. When not chasing a baby or driving kids to dance and swimming lessons, she is at the office educating people about the benefits of pretend play. She owns an online toy store boutique at https://www.playfullyeverafter.com/ and sells everything from Little Adventures and Disney brand princess dresses to backpacks and quality puzzles and toys. Check out her blog as she often gives away free products. Her Amazon store has free shipping and so does her website. If you would like to read more articles from Shelby please subscribe to her article feed.

By Dr Varsha Patel

The prevalence of "Autism" is increasing day by day. Autism spectrum disorder is only detected after 1-2 years of age and there is no indication that your child might be autistic before this age. Some of the factors that are increasing the chances of the child becoming Autistic may be due to changing lifestyle, imbalanced diet, canned processed food, stress, vaccinations, also increased habit of smoking and drinking especially in women. As old belief goes "PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE" Autism can be prevented by being little cautious and leading a healthy life style.

Precaution starts from day you start planning for a child. The moment you start planning start Folic acid supplement (dosage as per your physician's advice), folic acid is one of the major vitamin which helps prevent neural defects. Next utmost important step to be taken is STOP SMOKING AND HARD DRINKS. Avoid junk food, canned processed food, aerated drinks and canned juices. Avoid red meat and minimize non vegetarian diet, include fresh water fish to other sources of sea food. Drink plenty of water minimum 2.5 to 3 liters of water a day. Eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables. Include nuts and seeds like Brazilian nut, hazelnut, walnut, pecans, almonds, flaxseeds, sesame seeds, black dates in your daily routine.

Once you conceive, make sure you eat a balanced diet in terms of proteins, fats, carbohydrates, vitamins and minerals. Of course need for each nutrient increases and is different in different trimester of pregnancy. Consult a Qualified Nutritionist who will guide you through your pregnancy. Try to do activities that keep you happy and help you sleep well, take care of your self, avoid high heels - be cautious don't get into an accident. And DO NOT FORGET "NO SMOKING AND HARD DRINKS".

Post delivery; make sure you BREAST FEED your child for one year. As Breast Milk is the best and a complete Nutrients available to your infant. Do not self diet to lose weight and get in shape, while you are breast feeding your child. Eat a well balanced diet, consult a Nutritionist she will advise you. Remember what you eat will go to your child through breast milk. When your child is six months old introduce food in their diet along with Breast feeding; your child is growing and only breast milk will not suffice their needs. A Qualified Nutritionist will be the right person to advice the food that suits your baby.

Feed your child a balanced home cooked food till they are 7 year old. Do not introduce junk food, aerated drinks, canned, ready to eat processed food till the age of 7 years. This will help improve their immunity and help build a strong healthy base for a healthy life ahead.

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By Sharon C Maynard

Are you looking at wooden toy kitchens for a Christmas gift? These are excellent gifts. Not only can they provide hours of fun, but they allow the child to use their imaginations and be creative while they are 'cooking' something special.

Finding the right toy that not only initiates fun, encourages self-expression and will not be tossed aside after the paper is off the box can be a challenge today. Sometimes going back to the basics is what our children and grand children need. Hands on activities that get the mind thinking and processing ideas are a must.

Why Choose Wooden Toy Kitchens?

There are so many things to consider for Christmas gifts today and many of them require battery or electricity to work. The gifts that require hands-on play, the use of imagination and creativity not only tend to be more educational but can be inspiring as well. Toy kitchens are perfect gifts for both boys and girls; yes, boys too as many of the great chefs today are men.

Wooden kitchens can be simple to complex. They can consist of a single unit that consists of a sink and a stove or it could be upper cabinets with the lower cabinets containing a sink, stove and oven. The options are endless because it's made from wood. Just like designing and building a kitchen in your home, these miniature versions can be designed and built to your needs and wants.

Some manufacturers may only offer certain layouts; others may offer an option to custom design your own. You could even contact a local craftsman and see if they will build one for you. Regardless of where you purchase one, you can still add to the wooden toy kitchens once purchased. Wood is very versatile and it can be stained, painted or even varnished. The kitchen will be sturdy and will last a long time.

Life with Wooden Toy Kitchens

Toy kitchens will be part of play when the little girl is pretending to be the mommy to her many dolls. They will also be part of a little boy's playtime when it's time to help out and make a snack for the family. Relatives can give additional gifts such as fake food, dishes and cookware to enhance the gift and increase the time playing with the kitchen.

The solid construction and the ability to decorate it enhance the charm of wooden kitchens compared to the plastic ones. Wood will last longer and a new coat of paint will renew the appeal of the kitchen for any child. You remodel your kitchen, why can't your children remodel theirs?

When giving this type of gift, include other smaller gifts to increase the playtime that the children will want to spend with the wooden kitchen. Have the child open a small table and chairs or plastic dishes and food before unwrapping the kitchen. They may get excited about the smaller gift itself but when they see the bigger gift they will know exactly how to put it all together.

Christmas is a very special time of year and giving gifts is a lot of fun. However, giving gifts that are educational and fun at the same time are even better gifts to give. Children who unwrap wooden toy kitchens at Christmas will spend many months that follow having fun fixing meals, cleaning and organizing their very own kitchen.

By Susan Bennet

Holding a birthday party can be a unique experience for parents as well as children. First rule of holding any party is to select the venue. All other ideas have to come from that. If you are hosting a party at a restaurant or a pizza parlor, they will usually provide you with the decorations. It can save you a lot of hassle if you choose this course of action. On the other hand if you want to hold a truly unique or different birthday party for your kid it will be well to hold it at your home.

You can decorate your party venue with lot of colorful things like balloons, buntings and even mistletoe. You can use lot of variations like making arches with balloons or using a tasteful flower arrangement. In case you are holding a theme party, you can use the participating kids as a part of your overall theme. Especially if you are doing one of the jungle party themes, you can paint the faces of the kids as animals.

Kids always enjoy getting themselves painted. You can have lot of very cute looking lions, cats and the eternal favorite monkeys dancing around your party. There are a few things that you should consider. You can hire a professional face painter or you can do it yourself. If you elect to take this option and do it yourself, you should take special care in selecting the paints. Make sure that you use FDA approved paint. Second thing is to make sure that child you are about to paint does not have acne or an open cut on his face. If he or she has any kind of skin condition, you should paint his or her hand, shoulder or some other body parts.

You should have an assortment of brushes, sponges and baby wipes. You should also have few bowls of clean water, towels and tissue papers. Most important thing is that you should have a mirror handy as kids just love to see their face after someone has painted it. In case you or the kid does not like the result, you can always wipe the original and redo it.

Another thing that you have to be very careful about is the instructions as how to remove the paint. Use wet soft baby wipes to remove the paint. Carefully read these instructions and do not forget to convey it to the parents of other children.

Susan is a full-time freelance writer. She is an avid traveler and reader. She enjoys writing on business, health & fitness, travel, parenting, relationships and personal development.

By Heather L Umphrey

New parents can easily get overwhelmed with all the baby products and gadgets out on the market that making decisions on what baby necessities are needed is almost impossible. Parents are always concerned about products that are safe, affordable and stimulating for their little one. Not only can I recommend a must-have product that meets those needs but also creates a lasting bond between baby and parent. It is the baby sling.

Baby slings have been around for quite some time and have not much evolved. They are easy to wear, easy to care for and easy to transport. Provided are the top 5 reasons to wear your baby in a sling:

1. Building Communication - with the act of holding your baby close, a parent is more equipped to pick up on their baby's cues an become attuned to their baby's gestures. Being able to read your baby's signals without them having to cry builds their trust in you, as well as increase their confidence and learning experiences. This creates a positive interaction and enhances the bond between baby and parent.

2. Convenience - baby slings allow you to move freely while holding your baby close. You are able to do your daily activities such as shopping, cooking, walking and completing errands all while holding your child. The sling fits nicely and comfortably on your shoulders. It eliminates any discomfort or awkward feelings. It also allows you to discreetly breastfeed your child while blocking stimuli. The sling can also be used as a blanket, pillow or changing pad.

3. Promoting Development - carrying your baby in a sling can promote physical development. While you carry your child, they observe your movements, breathing and heartbeat which in turn helps regulate the child's own physical responses.

4. Affordable - baby slings are cost effective when compared to other baby carrying or transporting devices. The average cost of a sling can range from $30 to $85 dollars and easily lasts for up to two years. You can also make your own sling for the ambitious parents.

5. Happier Baby - some studies have shown that babies who are held in baby slings cry less than those who are not. Instead they feel the comfort and security of their parent and are able to observe their environments and entertain themselves while being calmly stimulated.

As said before, there are many baby gadgets out there but the baby sling will surely be up there with must-have items for new parents.

Heather Umphrey is the author and the proud owner of mybabybuddy.com. We are an online baby store that sells an assortment of baby gifts whether for a newborn, first birthday or baby shower.

As a Nanny for over a decade, I got to experience an assortment of must have baby products. I have seen first hand what products have soothed, calmed, educated, secured and entertained children of all ages.

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By Jill Starishevsky

I have heard them all. I have heard all the reasons why parents don't discuss child sexual abuse prevention with their children. I have heard them so often that I can recite them by heart. As the new year approaches, I decided it would be a good idea to memorialize the top 10 reasons for not discussing the subject. I invite you to add any that may have been omitted.

1. Children are seldom victims of this crime. Actually, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control, in the United States, 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys is sexually abused by the time they are 18. Consider those numbers for a moment. They are shocking and devastating. Those figures alone should motivate parents to seek out prevention strategies.

2. This kind of thing doesn't happen where we live. Actually, this crime has no socio-economic boundaries. It doesn't care if you are black or white, rich or poor or what religion you practice. It can creep in when you least expect it.

3. We don't let our children go near strangers. Actually, 93% of all child sexual abuse occurs at the hands of someone known to the child and trusted by the parents. Even if a child is never around strangers, he or she could be victimized by a neighbor, a coach, a religious official or family member. Parents who teach only stranger danger are doing a disservice to their child.

4. My child is not old enough for this discussion. Actually, the appropriate age to discuss child sex abuse prevention is when a child is three years old. The conversation can start as simply as "Did you know that the parts of your body covered by a bathing suit are private and are for no one else to see or touch?" Continue the conversation by explaining to the child that he should tell Mommy, Daddy or a teacher if someone touches him on those private parts. Be sure to include any necessary exceptions for potty training, hygiene and doctor visits.

5. I don't want to scare my child. Actually, when handled properly, children find the message empowering and are not frightened at all. Parents do not refrain from teaching traffic safety for fear that their child will be afraid to cross the street. So too should we address the subject of body safety.

6. I would know if something happened to my child. Actually, child sexual abuse is difficult to detect because frequently there are no physical signs of abuse. The emotional and behavioral signs that may accompany sexual abuse can be caused by a variety of triggers.

7. My child would tell me if something happened to him. Actually, most children do not immediately disclose when they have been sexually abused. Contrary to a child who falls down and runs over to tell his parents, a child who has been sexually abused is likely being told not to tell anyone because no one will believe him, that people will say it is his fault, that the disclosure will cause great sadness in the family and that the behavior is their little secret.

8. We never leave our child alone with adults. Actually, children can be sexually abused by other children. The very same lessons that can help prevent children from being sexually abused by adults, can keep them safe from other children. Teach children what touch is appropriate and what is inappropriate, teach them the proper terminology for their private parts and teach them who they can talk to if anyone touches them in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable.

9. I don't want to put thoughts in her head. Actually, there is no data to indicate that a child who has been taught about child sexual abuse prevention is more likely to fabricate that they have been sexually abused. According to Victor Vieth, director of the National Child Protection Training Center at Winona State University, "Children do lie, but seldom about being abused. All human beings can and do lie, but it's hard for kids to do it about sex. They can't lie about something they have no knowledge of," he said, "and children don't learn about oral sex on Sesame Street."

10. It's not going to happen to my child. Actually, as the statistics reveal, child sexual abuse is so pervasive that it could happen to any child. This reason is the catch-all. Educated, loving parents have actually said this to me. If one were to ask any parent whose child has been sexually abused if they thought their child would ever be sexually abused, I can guarantee each one would say no. No one wants to believe this could happen to their child. We need to stop denying that it could happen and recognize that there are ways to prevent it from happening. Make the decision to talk to your child about sexual abuse prevention in 2012. It could be the greatest gift you ever give them. Have a safe and healthy New Year.

Jill Starishevsky
Prosecutor, Child Abuse/Sex Crimes
Author, My Body Belongs to Me
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