By Louise M Evans
Bullying problems with children come from the children community so it is vital that we as parents equip our kids to know how to communicate with children. It certainly isn't rocket science but it is our responsibility.
To help children communicating see the tips for parents below
Tips for parents
Good childhood communication helps children to develop confidence, feelings of self-worth, and good relationships with others and be a deterrent to Bullies. Try these tips:
The first step is to become the childs size by bending down, crouching or sitting at their eye level. Removing all intimidation will open up lines of communication.
Now we need to teach children to listen... gently touch a child on the shoulder before you talk... say their name and speak using eye contact.
Try being a bit sneaky and whisper.. This will encourage their listening skills. My favourite one is 'would you like to go the park'
Parents that I meet with me know that I harp on this one all the time. That is just because I believe in it so much... Look a child in the eyes - Make eye contact with them. This teaches them two things 1. Eye contact is not scary and 2. No misunderstandings!
Get your child to practice listening and talking: Give them a quiz about the article just on TV or in a book on the radio etc.
Respect children - Speak to your child the way you would like to be spoken to. Sometimes we come down with the authoritive voice we cut off the line of communication. If we speak with a soft welcoming tone of voice your child will seek you out as a person to trust and confide in.
Use conversation starters and prompters that invite children to say more about an incident or their feelings.
Be kind with your words and your child's confidence will be built higher and will reinforce a healthy line of communication with you and your child. Tearing them down only affects their self esteem - Children with low self esteem will either be bullied or become a bully - One shows low self esteem inward (the bullies) and the other outward (the bully)
Never assume your child knows they are loved.. Take every opportunity to let them know in words! "I Love You!"
Take time to communicate with your child - A little effort goes a long way in the development of your child.
http://www.selfesteemcentre.com.au
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Self-Esteem-Centre-For-Children/149205628445046
@selfesteem2012
Bullying problems with children come from the children community so it is vital that we as parents equip our kids to know how to communicate with children. It certainly isn't rocket science but it is our responsibility.
To help children communicating see the tips for parents below
Tips for parents
Good childhood communication helps children to develop confidence, feelings of self-worth, and good relationships with others and be a deterrent to Bullies. Try these tips:
The first step is to become the childs size by bending down, crouching or sitting at their eye level. Removing all intimidation will open up lines of communication.
Now we need to teach children to listen... gently touch a child on the shoulder before you talk... say their name and speak using eye contact.
Try being a bit sneaky and whisper.. This will encourage their listening skills. My favourite one is 'would you like to go the park'
Parents that I meet with me know that I harp on this one all the time. That is just because I believe in it so much... Look a child in the eyes - Make eye contact with them. This teaches them two things 1. Eye contact is not scary and 2. No misunderstandings!
Get your child to practice listening and talking: Give them a quiz about the article just on TV or in a book on the radio etc.
Respect children - Speak to your child the way you would like to be spoken to. Sometimes we come down with the authoritive voice we cut off the line of communication. If we speak with a soft welcoming tone of voice your child will seek you out as a person to trust and confide in.
Use conversation starters and prompters that invite children to say more about an incident or their feelings.
Be kind with your words and your child's confidence will be built higher and will reinforce a healthy line of communication with you and your child. Tearing them down only affects their self esteem - Children with low self esteem will either be bullied or become a bully - One shows low self esteem inward (the bullies) and the other outward (the bully)
Never assume your child knows they are loved.. Take every opportunity to let them know in words! "I Love You!"
Take time to communicate with your child - A little effort goes a long way in the development of your child.
http://www.selfesteemcentre.com.au
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Self-Esteem-Centre-For-Children/149205628445046
@selfesteem2012
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